{"id":4640,"date":"2026-09-30T07:48:18","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T11:48:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/anchorsforlife.org\/?p=4640"},"modified":"2026-09-30T07:52:48","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T11:52:48","slug":"go-gain-your-brother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anchorsforlife.org\/sw\/go-gain-your-brother\/","title":{"rendered":"Nenda Upate Ndugu Yako"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nenda Upate Ndugu Yako<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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\u201c"Tena, ndugu yako akikukosea, enenda ukamwonye kosa lake, wewe na yeye peke yenu; akikusikia, umempata ndugu yako."\u201d
Mathayo 18:15<\/strong><\/em><\/p>

Tunapozingatia mada ya msamaha, ni muhimu kutaja kile ambacho msamaha si. Msamaha si kupuuza makosa uliyotendewa, wala haimaanishi kuyakubali, kuyahalalisha, au kuyasamehe. Msamaha haimaanishi kujifanya kana kwamba kosa halikutokea au kwamba hujaumizwa. Msamaha wa Kibiblia ni uamuzi wa kutoweka tena alama ya kosa dhidi ya mkosaji. Unahusisha kumwachilia mtu kutoka kwa deni analodaiwa na lawama anayostahili. Msamaha ni uamuzi wa mapenzi, si hisia.<\/p>

Wakorintho wa Kwanza 13:5 inatuambia kwamba "upendo hauandiki makosa," lakini je, hii inamaanisha tunapuuza makosa yaliyofanywa au kujaribu kuyaficha ndani kabisa mahali fulani? Bwana Yesu alitumia muda mwingi kushughulikia suala hili na anatuwekea mfano wa kushughulikia makosa yaliyofanywa kwetu. Tazama kwamba katika mstari wetu anaiita jinsi ilivyo kweli: "ndugu yako akikukosea." Tufanye nini? Nenda ukamweleze. Wasiliana naye kuhusu jinsi alivyokuumiza na jinsi unavyohisi. Lakini tunapoendelea, ni muhimu, ikiwa tunataka kufanikiwa katika kushughulikia hili, kuwa tayari tumepeleka jambo hilo kwa Bwana. Hatupaswi tu kulipeleka kwa Bwana, bali pia kulikabidhi kwa Bwana! Hili linajitokeza baadaye katika Mathayo 18.<\/p>

Katika mistari ya 15-17, Bwana Yesu anatuwekea mfano wa msamaha. Kwanza tunapaswa kuweka jambo hilo siri kati yetu na mtu mwingine. Tunapomwendea yule aliyetukosea, tunapaswa kuzungumza naye peke yetu, faraghani, na kuwa wazi, waaminifu, na watulivu mbele za Bwana. Huenda hata wasitambue walichofanya, na wakijua, mtazamo wako wa unyenyekevu wa utii na upendo unaweza kuwasaidia kuelewa walichofanya dhidi yako.<\/p>

Unapoenda kuwakabili, usiende kushinda mabishano; nenda kumshinda ndugu yako! Lazima tuwe na roho ya upole na upole tunapotafuta kumrejesha ndugu au dada katika Kristo (Gal. 6:1).<\/p>

Ikiwa mkutano wa kwanza hautatatua tatizo, tunaagizwa kuwaleta wengine kusaidia kulitatua. Lakini hawa wanapaswa kuwa wale wanaosikiliza na kuomba, wakitafuta kusaidia kutatua tatizo kama wale ambao ni mashahidi mbele za Bwana. Kisha, ikiwa hili halitafanikiwa, litaletwa mbele ya kusanyiko.<\/p>

Nanga za Leo:<\/strong>
Ni vizuri sana kumpata ndugu yako mmoja mmoja na kusameheana kama Kristo alivyokusamehe wewe!<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Go Gain Your Brother \u201cMoreover, if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother.\u201dMatthew 18:15 As we consider the subject of forgiveness, it is essential to mention what forgiveness is not. 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